Coming Out Later in Life

Oct 19, 2022| Johan Sköld came out in his fourties and in this video he gives us an overview of his life. He mentions what it was like being a closeted teen during the AIDS pandemic, about struggling with your sexuality throughout a marriage, about coming out to all of his friends at his Birthday party when he turned 50 and about what it's like coming out a bit later in life and entering the LGBTQIA+ community now.

Bill Schroeder - Living Authentically at 60

Aug 5, 2025 | In this episode of Out Late with David, Bill Schroeder shares his transformative journey of coming out as a gay man at the age of 60 after 37 years of marriage. He reflects on the feelings of fear and authenticity that led him to finally embrace his true self. Bill discusses the emotional challenges he faced, the reactions of his family, and the importance of self-discovery. He emphasizes that it's never too late to live authentically and offers advice for others who may be struggling with their identity.

Shaun Williams - Founder of Gay Fathers Worldwide and Bent Couch Counselling

Jan 4, 2024 | In this episode, David Cotton interviews licensed counselor Shaun Williams; he previously had successful career in construction when he came out as gay after 25 years of marriage. After coming out he changed his career to help others finding their true selves. Shaun shares his experiences growing up in the 80s, discovering his sexuality at a young age, and the weight of keeping his secret. He discusses the impact on his family and the challenges he faced in coming out. Shaun also talks about the creation of Gay Fathers Worldwide, a support group he formed for men who have come out later in life. He emphasizes the importance of finding a safe space and community for support and understanding.

Brian Janes - Came Out after 26 Years of Marriage, Now Finding His Place in His New Community

Aug 28, 2024 | Brian Janes, a successful real estate broker, came out as gay at age 49 after 26 years of marriage. He loved being married and had a strong connection with his wife, but deep down, he had a sexual desire that didn't match up with her. After years of therapy and self-help, his wife eventually told him she wanted a divorce. Brian knew he was gay from a young age but didn't know how to embrace it. He suppressed his true self and lived in fear of being found out. After his divorce, he made the decision to come out and started a podcast for men coming out later in life.

David Nygaard - Divorce, Heart Attack, Bankruptcy…A Journey of Resilience

Oct 10, 2024 | In this conversation, David Cotton speaks with David Nygaard about his journey of coming out as gay later in life. They discuss the challenges of recognizing one's identity in a society that often stigmatizes homosexuality, the complexities of navigating relationships and marriage, and the impact of a significant health crisis on Nygaard's life. Nygaard shares his experiences of embracing authenticity, his political aspirations, and the importance of open communication in relationships. The conversation concludes with advice for those in mixed orientation marriages, emphasizing the need for self-acceptance and seeking professional guidance. David also offers advice for others who may be struggling with their identity and relationships.

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Ralf Schumacher
Am 14. Juli 2024 veröffentlichte der ehemalige Formel-1-Fahrer Ralf Schumacher ein Foto von sich und einem anderen Mann auf Instagram, wie sie Arm in Arm den Sonnenuntergang betrachten. In der Bildunterschrift schrieb Schumacher: „Das schönste im Leben ist, wenn man den richten Partner an seiner Seite hat mit dem man alles teilen kann.“ Damit war klar: Ralf Schumacher ist schwul oder bisexuell. Schnell darauf wurde bekannt, dass Schumachers Partner Étienne Bousquet-Cassagne heißt und das Paar in Nizza, Südfrankreich, lebt. Das Interesse an Schumachers Coming-out war gigantisch: Mehr als fünfhunderttausend Likes auf Social Media, Solidaritätsbekundungen, überwiegend positive Kommentare, Interviews und Berichterstattungen auf internationaler Ebene. Während in anderen Branchen inzwischen viele Menschen „out and proud“ sind, gilt ein Coming-out im Profisport, insbesondere in der Formel 1, noch immer als Tabubruch. Das war jedoch nicht, was Schumacher zu dem Schritt bewog. Er wollte kein politisches Statement setzen oder ein queeres Vorbild sein, erklärte er in einem TV-Interview mit Sky: „Es geht hier rein egoistisch um Étienne und mich.“ Also in erster Linie darum, authentisch und in Ruhe mit seinem Partner zu leben. Dennoch: Das Private ist politisch. Ob das beabsichtigt war oder nicht, Schumacher hat durch sein Coming-out ein Statement gesetzt und queere Sichtbarkeit in den heteronormativen Motorsport gebracht. » | Karin Schupp/as/pb | Samstag 12. Februar 2022

John Duerler - Navigating Complexities of Coming Out While Creating Community for Gay Fathers

Nov 11, 2024 | In this interview David Cotton speaks with John Duerler who shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man, navigating the complexities of coming out to his family and the challenges of maintaining relationships. He discusses the importance of being true to oneself, the supportive reactions from his family, and the creation of a community for gay fathers. John emphasizes the significance of open communication and offers advice for others in similar situations, highlighting that they are not alone in their struggles.

Ron Bunnell - 39 Years into His Marriage Before He Came Out to His Wife; Now Living a Full Life

July 21, 2024 | Ron Bunnell shares his journey of coming out as gay later in life and the impact it had on his marriage. Despite initial fears, Ron's wife showed love and support, and they were able to rebuild their relationship. Ron emphasizes the importance of being authentic and true to oneself, even if it means facing challenges. He also highlights the significance of finding support from others in similar situations. Ron's story serves as an inspiration for those navigating mixed orientation marriages and coming out later in life.

Brian Beaudette - After Being Married for 20 Years He Struggled with the Impact on His Family

un 5, 2024 | David's guest, Brian, first came out to his wife over 20 years ago but chose to stay married for the sake of his family. It took ten years for him to decide it was time to live a different kind of life. Today, at age 59 he can finally say he’s “found his tribe.”

Charles Vollmar - Successful Chef…Married, 2 Kids; Wife Discovers He's Gay...Outed Him to Everyone

Apr 12, 2024 | Charles Vollmer, a successful California chef, shares his journey of coming out later in life and the challenges he faced. After being outed by his wife, he left his possessions behind and started a new life in San Miguel, Mexico. He is rebuilding his career as a culinary teacher and started sharing his story on social media. Charles discusses the unique challenges faced by men who come out later in life, the impact on their families, and the need for support and understanding. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and finding a community of like-minded individuals.

Growing Up Gay: Coming Out Experience

Mar 4, 2023 | Wolf Beene, a gay man from Texas shares his incredible life experience as a gay man.

"Don't Ask, Don't Tell" | David Cotton

Feb 28, 2025

How I Found Out I Was Queer: David Archuleta

June 29, 2025 | David Archuleta gets up close and personal about his queer journey in this special episode of Storytellers: Pride Edition. The former American Idol finalist shares his unique perspective on discovering his LGBT identity and how it differs from understanding his Latino roots.

Why Am I Gay? Stories of Coming Out in America | HBO's "America Undercover" | 1993

Dec 10, 2021 | Three gay men and a lesbian couple speak about their lives: a New York City police officer, Michael Callen of The Flirtations, a client of an "ex-gay" ministry, and a lesbian couple leading a gay/lesbian youth group. The episode ends with footage of most of them at the 1993 March on Washington.

Brian Beaudette - Maine Live - Coming Out Allowed My Inner Voice to Be Heard

Oct 7, 2020 | Maine Live offered me an amazing opportunity... a platform from which to share my very personal story about coming out as a gay dad and my road to living more authentically. I can't thank them enough.

Out Late with David: Brian Beaudette - After Being Married for 20 Years He Struggled with the Impact on His Family

Jun 5, 2024 | David's guest, Brian, first came out to his wife over 20 years ago but chose to stay married for the sake of his family. It took ten years for him to decide it was time to live a different kind of life. Today, at age 59 he can finally say he’s “found his tribe.”

My Growing Up Gay Story – Coming Out | LGBTQ

Apr 6, 2024 | Michael Saul, a professional film maker reflects on 'growing up gay' and 'coming out' experiences.

You’re Never Too Old to Be True to Yourself! 95-year-old Comes Out as Gay | Reupload

Mar 2, 2017

Ralf Schumacher 'Coming Out' Will Be an Inspiration to Other Racing Drivers

Jul 15, 2024 | Former Formula 1 driver Ralf Schumacher has revealed that he's currently in a relationship with another man, here's why this will inspire other LGBT racers.

Ralf Schumacher's boyfriend is his French general manager, they've been together for two years, 'never argue and are sensationally happy', close friend reveals after F1 legend Michael's brother comes out as gay »

Imraan Vagar: Coming-Out | Part 7 | The Sum Of All Parts

Oct 6, 2023 | Welcome to the 7th and final instalment in this video series. In this finale episode I hope to offer gay and bisexual men with helpful and constructive advice on how to prepare for and approach coming-out to the people in their lives. Please be advised that I’m not a trained therapist or counsellor. The following thoughts and views are informed by my own life experiences and observations of the human condition.

The afore-mentioned warnings apply to this, Imraan’s last video, too. Enjoy it! The video is the last in the series on coming out. – © Mark Alexander

To watch all the other videos in the series, please click here.